Photo on 2013-07-02 at 22.01 #3Some of you may think this post is TMI, but guess what? I don’t care (insert evil laugh here) but its actually a very serious problem , they tell you, you might have some Libido issues after you have a baby but I didn’t know it will be this bad. When I say bad I mean a month and a half bad with the exception of birthday love for Timi , which I had to force myself to do which was quite good (please bear in mind I am cringing as I write this).

The mummies I have talked to have told me everything from drink Night train to go and buy Libido in the market , someone said I should drink spanish fly or spray it in the hair and sniff if that is possible. I am pretty much lost at this point , Timi is being really nice about and he said to me no pressure but I will like my fancy to be tickled eventually , I have no idea what the problem is I just think I have been a bit overwhelmed and tired. How can I fix this , a guy friend of mine has said to me if you don’t give it he’ll get it somewhere else sooooo I need your help.

Have you been through this ? how did you get your mojo off strike ? please let me know

5 Comments on Libido on Strike

  1. chichi
    July 17, 2013 at 4:46 pm (6 years ago)

    awwh all mamas have all been there, like i tell my friends things usually change after baby just gota find what works for u sometimes just planing ahead helps and sometimes you just have to force yourself cause it needs to be done sorry i know dis wasnt dat helpful

    • admin
      July 21, 2013 at 6:16 am (6 years ago)

      Lol! This was quite helpful , I will force myself o , I have no choice. Thanks so much.

  2. dolapo adu
    July 19, 2013 at 2:13 am (6 years ago)

    Hi temi, i am also a first time mum and this issue was a biggie for me because my hubby loves to get it alot(*smiles*).At first he was silent about the “strike” but after reading about it he understood i was not doing it intentionally and he was very understanding. BUT……anyway at postnatal we were adviced that no matter what, the baby owns the upper torso, while our hubby the lower part and they must not be denied of it.This stuck on like glue so anytime he wants it, i reflect on those words and it really does help because no matter what he also gets weighed down at some points as a ftdad too so we just got to balance it all.

    • admin
      July 21, 2013 at 6:15 am (6 years ago)

      Glad to know I am not the only one, thanks so much for your help

  3. naijawife
    May 15, 2014 at 5:38 am (6 years ago)

    I love how honest you are on your blog. Never change! By the way…this whole “if you don’t give him he’ll get from elsewhere” is just ridiculous . After all, if work stress caused his libido to drop would you look outside? Nope. At the end of the day that’s the man who loves you . As long as you’re open with him about this issue and he’s an understanding person you’ll eventually get past it (I know this is a past post lol and I’m late) . Also…a little hand service never hurts đŸ™‚


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